Showing posts with label visualisation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label visualisation. Show all posts

Friday, January 05, 2007

Je ne sais plus...

There is so much to see through my French Windows but today all I can see is him:


How does one fall out of love? Can anybody tell me? I have been trying my best for the past two years but I just can’t get the hang of it.

I’ve tried Regression (remember when he did this to you…?) but that only works if you have a really selective memory.

I’ve tried Visualisation (a couple of strategically-placed sharp objects and a heavy duty pinch clamp for example) but all I can see are his blue eyes crinkling up at the corners when he smiled.

I’ve tried Denial (you never really loved him) but then how come my heart is just a gob of raw mincemeat now?

I’ve tried Demonizing him – but he never was an angel and I fell in love with him anyway.

I’m doing my best to Detach but there’s this bit of me that is firmly stuck and I pull and I pull but it just won’t come away.


So – tell me…how does one fall out of love? It can’t be that difficult…after all, he managed to do it in no time at all…